Response to Anon’s Post @andmyelectricsurgesfree
You suggest that my girlfriend talks over me and stifles my own articulation of trans identity. If you had been present during my self-discovery in this area, I would listen to you with an open heart. As it happens, however, A supported me with dedication throughout the entire ongoing process, something you did not do. You cannot imagine the kindness of this girl and meticulousness of her self-education. She never asks to be congratulated for it.
If you are trying to dig up the dirt on our relationship, I assure you that we have beaten you to it. We have struggled through massive codependency and mental health crises. The love we feel for one another has proved its mettle time and time again, redefining the contours of our relationship in progressively healthier ways. If you know A from an earlier period in her life, I would suggest renewing your acquaintance. This girl is remarkably self-sufficient and respectful of boundaries. She and I both have our traumas, which you do not know about, and are at a point in our relationship where we can support each other in working them out while also giving each other space for self-actualization. Butt out.
If you want to talk to me about problems you perceive in my relationships, I would suggest calling my phone number. If you aren’t comfortable doing that, then you should reconsider your internet behavior.